Bodhisattvas are natural Tong lin persons, it is called the exchange of positive karma from negative energy fields. What a person does determines the negative or positive energy fields. If you are married to an negative person who does not practice the dharma, it is like being married to a demon. This is how a marriage will end. Many persons have to give up their pursuit of enlightenment for their marriage partners. I know I have been there three times. It is better not to get married at all or have relationships than go through that agony. A strong Buddhist practionier suffers this loneliness on a daily basis. When you have family or children, and they turn their back on the pursuit of dharma to a serious practionier, it pulls their parents into the bardos or lower consciousness. If the children chose a partner, who is anti-dharma, it is a downward spiral. I was always giving my good karma to my negative family, until the astral Buddhas intervene, and cause my children to leave my mandala. You may love someone but they can be very bad for you karmically. Bodhisattvas need to help themselves first, and when they are strong they can help others. To sacrifice yourself for others is a masochistic behavior pattern. If you are unbalanced, you need to work on yourself before helping others. I disliked working with married persons with children, or in a commitment, why because the power of the positive field flows to their consorts,or their children, and they end up begging for more, until the bodhisattva runs out. This programmed statement is that the Deities never run out is nonsense, they just dissolve which is a kind of death. I have associates who do nothing to help their situations, but call others like a baby for a fix. Soon you become a burden to them, and they want to get rid of you. You need to become self sufficient in your own being, before helping others. Work on yourself first. On my sites I have given you methods and videos to help you, but you need to practice them to get results with meditations, or they will not help you. Om Ah Hum.
Posted on: Sat, 27 Jul 2013 19:40:53 +0000
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