#C1478 Tiruvalluvar ( a Tamil poet/writer) was written more than 5000 yrs ago. Its one of the ancient science on Human behaviour , which has not changed in-spite of modern education & technology ! ... SOME GOLDEN THOUGHTS TO PONDER :- 1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate behaviour. 2. If your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, youve lost them. 3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them. 4. If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public. 5. If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you dont let them chose what they want. 6. If your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly. 7. If your child does not respect other peoples feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them. 8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehaviour and you give little attention to good behaviour. 9. If your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they dont successfully complete it. 10. If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough. 11. If your child is openly defied, it is because you openly threaten to do something but dont follow through. 12. If your child is secretive, it is because they dont trust that you wont blow things out of proportion. 13. If your child talks back to you, it is because they watch you do it to others and think its normal behaviour. 14. If your child doesnt listen to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to make decisions. 15. If your child rebels it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right 1⃣ Whenever u feel like scolding or beating your child, take a deep breath, or count 1-10 and then act. 2⃣ Lets ask them to study their favorite subject on their own.. 3⃣ Send them to one paper without studying at all.. 4⃣ Remember what our kids are learning in 5th std is taught to 7th std abroad.. 5⃣ Lets keep our kids out of unwanted competition. 6⃣ 80% of what kids are learning ,wont be useful to them in future.. 7⃣ Our kids can really afford to do whatever they want to do in future . 8⃣ Higher degrees dont guaranty success and happiness.. 9⃣ Not all the highly educated people do well professionally. And not all those who do well professionally are the happiest ones.. 🔟 Kids are always in a party mood.. dont spoil it. #GS Admin: Nice... post #GS, Super,,, But... last, 6, 7, 8, 9 are unacceptable. ... :( one can also be professional and. Kind hearted man as well
Posted on: Thu, 11 Dec 2014 02:16:39 +0000