Cheating on you with their Ex might not necessarily mean they dont love you. Just because they are cheating on you with their ex does not necessarily mean they dont love you is why they are doing so,letting that part of them go might be a challenge to them,a challenge they are finding difficult to overcome and just because they are now in love with you doesnt mean they should automatically overcome that,love is not a rehabilitation centre and so just because they are now in love with you will not change that part of them if therapy is what they require to overcome that. 2. Them still going back to their ex might equally be as a result of you not providing them that which their ex has always offered them, you dont expect someone who have always been offered bread to suddenly accept stone which you now offer them just because they are now in love with you. Remember their ex has always been there before you and for them to let that part of them be requires greater challenge which will be based on how much you can fill that void created in them by their ex. You dont expect them to just forget their ex if that void is not filled. 3. Worrying will change nothing, if you worry year in and year out,it wont stop them from cheating on you with their ex,infact worrying will create further destruction as worrying is not a therapy neither is it a solution to such problem. If you are in this situation,you have this choices to make which are: *its either you accept the fact that they wont stop seeing their ex *let them be and move on with your life if you cant cope with that or *offer them to see a psychologist/therapist/ counselor who will help work on that part of them if only they are willing to let go of it. Loving them or just because you love them will not change that part of them is theyve tried to and its not working. Love is not a rehabilitation center. #Emperor
Posted on: Fri, 01 Nov 2013 19:45:13 +0000