Confession by a friend.. I hope it will inspire many of you...:) Today, exactly 3 months back I broke up with my girlfriend. I ended my one and half year relationship with her. The reason being that she cheated on me with some other guy. So,How do I feel after 3 months? BETTER. It was my first true love and she was my life. She was my oxygen. But what happens when that oxygen supply is cut off? You PANIC. Either you die or find desperate measures for your survival. For me it was the biggest setback of my life. I cried, cursed, and abused her. I felt devastated but most importantly LONELY. And then only when we have lost everything, are we free to do anything. -Fight Club First few days of the breakup are the toughest. For nearly 2 weeks I could not sleep. I hardly ate anything. I had no friends whom I could tell my condition. All I did was listen to sad songs and watch romantic movies. I literally saw 500 days of summer 50 times. At that point those were the only things I could relate to. Resisting the urge to speak with my ex was the toughest thing. During the happy phase of our relationship, we used to speak everyday for nearly 8-9 hours. I used to stalk her facebook profile and check her last seen and statuses on whatsapp (which actually made me feel even worse). On social networking sites I used to read about breakup stories and life after breakup. Day and night, she was the only thing going around in my mind. I felt weak ,tired and frustated .I just wanted to get over her thoughts. And after 3 weeks my heart told my mind ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!! I told myself that I deserve better and maybe I am too good for her. I started working on my skills. I wanted to be a better person. I bought a guitar and started learning it. Now after 3 months I can play 4-5 chords and I have developed a passion for it. I started reading novels and articles. I realized that the only way I can stop thinking about her is to keep myself busy. Trust me it helps. Take this moment as a learning phase. Work on your personality and let the person regret her loss. WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH,THE TOUGH GETS GOING. The most important thing that I have learned with my breakup is to never depend too much on a person. My mistake. I made her the center of my life. In the last 3 months I have not contacted her, though, I still miss her, and looking at her photo with some other guy makes me cry. However, I have accepted the fact that she is not with me anymore. I do miss those long conversations and hugs. But then thats life. You get things at the most unexpected times of your life. Remember all this sacrifice will one day fetch you the result,so just be patient. LOVE IS THE BEST AND THE WORST THING A PERSON CAN EVER DO. Thats why its called falling. In the end I am actually thankful to my ex for teaching me how to live on my own. I have become a much better person now and for me the whole perspective of life has changed. Self growth and personality development is all that I am seeking for now. Because One day she will meet a successful me and regret her loss.:)
Posted on: Mon, 24 Nov 2014 10:24:53 +0000
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