Copied and pasted: LADIES! He came back from abroad and came with his folks to see your folks, seeking your hand in marriage. . . . . upon hearing hes from abroad, you dumped your lover and relationship of 3years and within a couple of weeks, youre married to the guy who just came from abroad. After a few weeks, he returns back to his base (abroad) with the promise to work towards you joining him over there in no distant time OR he promises to always send you a certain amount of money regularly. He not only leaves you with his folks, he also leaves you pregnant. From time to time, he sends you money and visits once in a blue moon. Your relocation is a no go area as a topic of discussion because things aint going quite as he expected, hence youre left with no choice but to remain here. ........Out of the blues, you notice he seldom sends money to you and doesnt really call as he used to. . . . . .in no time, the money stopped coming and no more calls. Youre left to fend for yourself and your baby, these goes on for as long as only God knows. Suddenly youre just realising this aint what you bargained for. Now youre telling whoever cares to listen that, your husband doesnt love you at all and hes a selfish man who decieved you into marrying him, infact hes a gold digger. .. .. .. .. ..babe abeg make i hear word. Who is selfish here? You left your relationship of 3yrs just to marry a man who came from abroad and you have the nerve to accuse your husband of not being in love with you? Do you love him? Did you marry him out of love or you married him because of his money and the fact that you saw him as a ticket to going abroad. Who is the bigger deciever between you both? You who pretended to love him and still went ahead to marry him for your own selfish reaons. You dare say hes a gold digger? Where is the gold in you? Do you even possess silver, bronze or ordinary copper? Even cowries sef you no possess come dey halla say the man na gold digger, please i ask again, where is the gold in you? Many girls are in this situation today. They dived into marriage for their own selfish reasons. Got married to a man for his money/for the mere fact that he is based abroad and not for love. Do i blame the men involved here? Not at all. Living outside the country aint no joke. These men do somany menial jobs just to make ends meet. Some even go to jail for as long as 15yrs. . . . . SOME ladies who often falls like a moving train, faster than the speed of light, as a pack of cards for men who came from abroad, usually ends up as married spinsters. Just a few Lucky ones dont get the misfortune of ending up as a married spinster, for their husbands relocated them overseas..... Aint saying its wrong to marry a man who is from abroad but atleast let it be that youre marrying him because you love him for who he is, and not for what you feel youl gain by marrying him. A girl who didnt marry out of love but out of lust for material gains surely deserves whatever hardship she faces in such a marriage. Marriage aint a ticket to material gains, marriage aint an escape route from singlehood. Marriage aint for the immature, feeble/petty minded. Look before you leap! Its a known fact that the daunting economic situaion of Nigeria is nothing to write home about but, you will not know till you come out of it. Ladies frankly speaking, some of you dont know what you want. Be you abroad or home, just pray to God to provide you with your own man. Afterall If you take the statistics you will see that there aint no marriage without its own turmoils be it home or abroad. All you need is a good God fearing man man. Young lady, it aint about getting married, its about staying married...
Posted on: Tue, 09 Sep 2014 17:35:53 +0000
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