DATING UPDATE: I like somebody. Well call him Romeo for now. He is someone who I went to grade school with and reconnected here on Facebook. The best way I can describe his character is kind and gentle. I especially love the way treats me with respect and sincerity, which is the reason I call him Romeo. He has all types of sweet names he calls me, adorable eh? Its actually very sweet how he expresses his deep happiness that the two of us are interested in each other, and he does it openly. I think at first he was a little reserved, most likely because he wasnt sure what I was feeling. So when I picked up that he was holding back I knew that had to change. Since I am so vocal and forward I let him know that its okay to let go and be himself, be the man he wants to show me he is. WOW, did he ever open up after that. I can see this going somewhere. I feel like flying with him, cause yall know me, I can get carried away with those feel good emotions! Haha, there is nothing bad about that at all, but there needs to be some balance as well right?! Thats when my rational side kicks in and says hey, he may be perfect in the heart, but wait until you get to know him better through the eyes. He has a little bit of rough past, nothing too crazy, but Im okay with it. Why? Well Ive seen how he has taken the negative and turned it into the positive. I am not looking at his history as much as I am impressed with how he changed his life presently, and how he is preparing a good future. If we all judged each other on our pasts Im not so sure wed all come out sunshiny, and more importantly we may be passing up some real good long lasting loving. Moreover, since we were in the same school since grade one, he even knows some of my family, and we share mutual acquaintances/friends. It will be interesting to see their reactions if/when I post pictures on facebook... whch obviously wouldnt be for a while. Id say at least three months. Im still feeling him out and taking my time seeing how he behaves in public. Haha. Half joking. Weve already had a coffee date before I left for Cuba, and thats when he triggered my interest- His eyes are intriguing, his voice is reassuring, and his laughter is hearty- Its funny how comfy I feel with him. I think knowing he was in my past helps me to feel settled about the future. As a matter of fact while I was in Cuba he texted me often and expressed how much he missed me and how much he was looking forward to seeing me when I returned home. Weve been talking since I got back and Im liking him more with each conversation. Today we are going for coffee again. I think it will be another good connection. We both own businesses, which is encouraging because he will understand my busy lifestyle, and I too will respect his time when he has business commitments to fulfill. So far so good. On the flip side, we are just starting to sail so I am expecting the seas to get a little rough... may even flip our ship. Nevertheless, it is possible to hold on through the storms and not fall over board... I dont think Ill be jumping ship. His heart is genuine and that quality is one character trait I will hold on to tightly. Oh yea, to the facebook friends who I attended grade school with, dont get too curious and hit me up in a private message guessing who Romeo is. I will not admit who he is until I am ready to post pics. haha. still love ya though. Cerise Fairfax
Posted on: Thu, 07 Nov 2013 17:57:12 +0000
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