DECEMBER SURVIVAL KIT FOR LADIES (IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIED) Allow me to intrude your space and act like an expect just for a moment .Let me fill you up on some secret that will take your relationship with your batter half to greater heights : 1. Respect your man even after you have discovered his weaknesses. It is very easy to love and respect Power Man who you only know from FB and Power FM because you do not really know him. You are not close enough to be exposed to his mistakes and flours .True respect is respecting someone during and after you have see and experience their shortfalls. 2. Never compare your man. Your mistake is you like compering things that should not be compared. Never compare your man with that one you are not even close to. It is an unfair comparison because you are not exposed to the weaknesses of the other.Always appreciate what you have it is better than what you do not have 3. Never reprimand your man in public. During this festive season when you are out visiting your family and friends , avoid screaming and reprimanding your man infront of your kind , friends and family. This will not only break his spirit but it will course them to disrespect him too . But in the long run they see you as a fool. You have an issue with him , call him aside in private and whisper a word to him. This will make him feel respected to love you . 4. Introduce your man with respect. Should you and you husband go home to visit your family. Make him feel welcomed in all ways possible. Introduce him with respect to family members and friends. Let them know he is your king. While you are there refrain from your exes and childhood boy friends, but again should you bump into them ,let them know you are with the love of your life. Keep him close to you especially if he does not know anybody in that area. 5. Do not discuss your differences with strangers You are visiting friends and family during this festive season to celebrate and have a good time ,not to solicit sympathy for the challenges you have with your man. This is not the right time to be sitting in the kitchen with your mother , sisters and aunties and telling them about the mistakes ,challenges and weaknesses of the poor guy while he is smiling obliviously in the dinning room. Avoid bad mouthing your relationship. 6. Give him attention. I know you are enjoying conversations with your family and friends ,but take a moment and sneak out with your man just to whisper some love into each other. Let him know that he is still your best friend even around your family and childhood friends. Show affection reasonably. 7. Protect him against your people Do not let you father and your brothers abuse the poor guy s car and doing as they please with his laptop and stereo. He is helpless in this zone , this are your people , control them and allow him his freedom of movement. Your family cannot keep on asking for this and that until the poor soul have nothing left and you are just sitting there ,do something , protect your man in your zone. 8. Continue to serve him. Do not delegate your man to your sisters and cousin. They are now the ones bringing him bathing water , food , drink etc. He is your man you sort him out .Eat with him if he is comfortable with that.Don t just leave him bathing and dressing alone in the room and he does not know anybody in the house ,what if he needs something ? I know that this steps may sound like babysitting ,but who cares he is your babe. 9. Allow him space to be a man. As much as you need to be with him and support him as per the above steps, maintain a balance , give him space for him to be a man, do not finish his sentences while he is trying to make a point with your parents. Let him show off to a reasonable extend. Let him talk about his car , dont be embarrassed men like their toys and will take any opportunity to show them off. 10. Ask for his advise , opinion and approval. Avoid instructing him to do things ,seek his approval,from time to time ask him for an advise on things. This will make him feel important and part of the family. Dont just say , Babe let take my parents to town,now ,rather say , Babe my parents are planning to go to town are WE gonna be able to take them ? or anything along those lines . Let him feel like he has a choice in the matter. I will write something for them single ladies later
Posted on: Fri, 05 Dec 2014 09:07:00 +0000
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