Dear Zane, I wrote you before about when i caught my little sister talking to a 31 year old man but now i need your advice for myself. Before i tell you about my problem just know that i told my mom about it and its being handle by the police department. I have a boyfriend who just graduated from college and im about to be a a junior in college. the problem is hes Muslim and i am christian. His parents and my mom dont want us to be together because of our religion. His mom told me once that the only way she will accept me is if i convert to Islam. My mom dont mind that he is Muslim she just dont like the fact that his family are forcing their religion on me. The other day we were having a conversation and he ask if i would consider converting to Islam and i respond with would you consider converting to Christianity? he answer absolutely no and i answer theres no way im changing my faith for someone else happiness. So now im thinking about taking a break from him so both of us can think about if this relationship can work, because i dont want to waste my time on someone if its not going to work. Zane what are your thoughts on this and do you think that we can make this work? Beside this we really do love each other and want to be together. P.S the trailer for Addicted is HOT and i cannot wait to see it. MY RESPONSE: Glad you blew the whistle on your sister and that pervert who was chatting with her online. I remember that email clearly and how some people were defending the man-SIGH. If I recall, your sister is around 12 or 13 and he is in his 30s. Ratchet! Anyway, on to your question about your boyfriend. Religion for me is a major aspect of who I am and I do not think that I could change my beliefs for anyone, nor would I try. He clearly is not willing to do it so why should you? Personally I feel you are young and need to take this for what it is and move on. This is a serious situation that will not change. Your mother is right to be upset because, like you said, she does not mind him being Muslim but she does mind his family trying to insist that you change. And did I miss the part about where he has put a ring on your finger someplace? Even then, you are entitled to your spirituality because changing religion is not like changing the color of your lipstick. Spiritual beliefs exist in your heart. Good luck.
Posted on: Mon, 23 Jun 2014 17:58:43 +0000
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