EXCERPT FROM DJ BABYLOWS BOOK ...LIFE OF A STRIPCLUB KING EXPOSED: WELL BY THE SUMMER OF 2001 I HAD MET ALMOST 1000 DANCERS AND HAD THE CHANCE TO HUSTLE/PIMP AT LEAST 100 OF THEM.I WORKED AT DIFFERENT CLUBS BUT MAINLY SUGAR DADDYS.IT WAS A SMALL CLUB BUT IT WAS A MONEY MAKER.I DJED ONLY LIKE 4 DAYS A WEEK AND HUSTLED WITH THE GIRLS 7 DAYS A WEEK. I WAS MAKING BETWEEN $1,000 TO $2,500 A WEEK.MONEY WAS REAL GOOD BACK THEN.I FELT LIKE I WAS REALLY IN A GOOD POSITION TO DO WHATEVER I WANT WHENEVER I WANTED TO EXCEPT FOR ONE THING UNIQUE AND I WERE EXPECTING A SON WELL AT LEAST I THOUGHT I WAS. LET ME START BY SAYING THIS,IN LIFE YOU NEVER KNOW WHO YOU WILL END UP WITH AND FOR BETTER OR WORSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN A CHILD WILL BE CONCEIVED.I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE MY STORY WITH YOU. UNIQUE AND I HAD BEEN KICKING IT FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS IN 2000 WHEN I FOUND OUT THAT SHE WAS PREGNANT AND THAT I COULD POSSIBLY BE THE FATHER.I THINK IT EXCITED ME AND FRIGHTENED ME AT THE SAME TIME.OF COURSE IT WOULD BE MY FIRST CHILD AS FAR AS I KNEW SO I WANTED TO DO THE RIGHT THING BUT BEING THAT UNIQUE WAS INDEPENDENT SHE DIDNT ALLOW ME TO TOTALLY BE NEAR HER.STRANGELY ENOUGH FOR HER FIRST 2 MONTHS AFTER SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE WAS PREGNANT SHE UP AND LEFT WEST PALM BEACH AND MOVED TO ORLANDO TO BE WITH HER FAMILY.I DIDNT UNDERSTAND WHY SHE WOULD JUST LEAVE LIKE THAT.I HAD AN APARTMENT THAT I SHARED WITH Q AND IT WAS SPACE FOR THE FUTURE MOTHER OF MY CHILD TO BE THERE.HOWEVER SHE DIDNT WANT TO STAY AT FIRST BUT RELUCTANTLY SHE CHANGED HER MIND AND CAME BACK TO WEST PALM BEACH.I BELIEVE IT WAS AROUND MARCH WHEN SHE RETURNED AND WE DID EVERYTHING IN OUR POWER TO MAKE IT COMFORTABLE AND SHE WAS OK.SINCE SHE WAS UNABLE TO DANCE I HAD TO CONTINUE HUSTLIN THE BEST WAY I KNEW HOW TO PROVIDE AT LEAST A ROOF OVER OUR HEAD.I WAS EXCITED ABOUT THE ARRIVAL OF THE NEW BABY AND I WANTED TO BE THE BEST FATHER I COULD BE DESPITE THE NIGHTLIFE I WAS APART OF.I WAS HAPPY WHEN I FOUND OUT IT WAS GOING TO BE A BOY SO THAT I COULD NAME HIM AFTER ME OR AT LEAST CLOSE TO IT.MY FIRST CHILD WOW I GUESS I WAS READY THEN THE UNEXPECTED HAPPENED.UNIQUE HADNT SPOKEN WITH HER FRIEND SUNSHINE FOR A WHILE AND THEY HAD SOME CATCHING UP TO DO.ONE AFTERNOON SUNSHINE CAME OVER TO THE HOUSE TO SEE UNIQUE AND THEY SPOKE,JUST CONVERSATING LIKE GIRLS DO.UNIQUE CONFIDED IN HER FRIEND ABOUT A FEW THINGS.AROUND THE 6TH MONTH OF UNIQUES PREGNANCY I WAS AT WORK ONE NIGHT AT SUGAR DADDYS WHEN I RECEIVED A CALL THAT SLIP AND SLIDE ARTIST TRINA WAS IN THE AREA AND WOULD BE STOPPING BY.I KNEW UNIQUE LIKED TRINAS MUSIC SO I CALLED AND TOLD HER AND SHE FOUND HER WAY TO THE CLUB WITH HER FRIENDS TO GET A GLIMPSE OF TRINA.WELL I DIDNT KNOW THAT UNIQUE AND SUNSHINE HAD AN ARGUEMENT BUT SUNSHINE PULLED ME ASIDE AND SAID SHE WANTED TO SPEAK TO ME.SHE ASKED WAS I HAPPY ABOUT THE BABY COMING.I SAID YES I WAS YOUNG BUT READY.SHE SAID WELL YOU SEEM LIKE YOU ARE A GOOD GUY AND I KNOW YOU LOVE UNIQUE BUT YOU NEED TO HAVE A SERIOUS TALK WITH HER ABOUT THAT BABY.I LOOKED AT HER PUZZLED AND SAID WHY AND SHE SAID I DONT BELIEVE YOU ARE THE FATHER BUT YOU NEED TO SPEAK TO HER.I WAS KIND OF THROWED BUT THEN UNIQUE WALKED UP AND I SIMPLY ASKED HER WAS IT MINES OR NOT?AT FIRST SHE SAID YES AND ACTUALLY GOT MAD AT ME FOR ASKING THEN I EXPLAINED WHAT SUNSHINE SAID AND SHE GOT QUIET.SHE SAID WELL TO BE HONEST IM NOT SURE WE WILL HAVE TO WAIT AND SEE.NOW THE AVERAGE MAN WOULD BE MAD BUT I COULDNT BE TOTALLY MAD BECAUSE WE WERE JUST KICKING IT IN THE BEGINNING AND WERENT REALLY IN A RELATIONSHIP YET.HOWEVER SHE COULDVE WARNED ME SO I KINDA FELT PLAYED BUT ANY REAL MAN KNOWS THAT WHEN ITS THE FIRST CHILD YOU ARE SOMEWHAT ATTACHED TO THE SITUATION AND HOPE IT IS YOURS. 3 MONTHS LATER IN OCTOBER UNIQUE GAVE BIRTH TO A HEALTHY BABY BOY AND I FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT I STILL WANTED TO KNOW THE TRUTH.I DIDNT SIGN THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE RIGHT AWAY BECAUSE I STILL NEEDED TO KNOW THE TRUTH WHETHER OR NOT HE WAS MY BIOLOGICAL SON.I DONT KNOW WHAT PROLONGED THE DNA TEST BUT 11 MONTHS LATER I FINALLY FOUND OUT THAT 99.6% THAT I WAS NOT THE REAL FATHER.I HAD GROWN ATTACHED TO THE BABY SO I STUCK AROUND ANYWAYS,HE EVEN HAS MY LAST NAME.NEEDLESS TO SAY UNIQUE AND I STAYED TOGETHER FOR 6 MORE YEARS AS A COUPLE BUT IT WAS ROCKY. I REALIZE THAT AS A FATHER FIGURE IT TAKES ALOT OF DEDICATION AND SUPPORT TO TEACH THESE KIDS THE WAY TO LIVE THEIR LIVES PROPERLY.WHAT BOTHERS ME HOWEVER IS THE FACT THAT SOME OF THE DADDIES ARENT FATHERS,THEY ARE SPERM DONORS.IM NOT GOING TO BASH MEN BUT SOME DONT KNOW HOW BLESSED THEY REALLY ARE TO BE ABLE TO REPRODUCE.A MESSAGE TO THE MEN OUT THERE THAT MAKE THE BABIES AND DONT TAKE THE TIME TO RAISE THEIR KIDS, DONT BE SUPRISE WHEN THE KIDS DONT RECOGNIZE YOU OR WANT TO BE BOTHERED WITH YOU WHEN THEY GET OLDER OR BECOME SUCCESSFUL.NOW ON THE FLIPSIDE OF THIS IS THAT THERE ARE ALOT OF GOOD MEN OUT THERE THAT GO THROUGH ALOT WITH THE MOTHERS.SOME OF THEM END UP LOCKED UP OR ON CHILD SUPPORT BECAUSE THE MOTHER IS LIVING WITH HER OWN ISSUES AND TRY TO SEPERATE THE KIDS FROM THEIR FATHERS.THESE MEN REALLY WANT TO BE WITH THEIR KIDS BUT WOMEN HAVE TO STOP USING THE KIDS LIKE PAWNS ON A CHESSBOARD JUST BECAUSE MAYBE THE MAN DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH THEM ANYMORE AND JUST LOVES HIS CHILDREN. I HAVE A CONFESSION TO MAKE I HAVE BEEN WITH A FEW WOMEN AND NEVER BEEN ABLE TO MAKE A CHILD AT LEAST NOT YET.SOMETIMES I BELIEVE THAT I AM UNABLE TO REPRODUCE BUT I DONT KNOW.I AM BLESSED TO BE APART OF MY EXS SON LIFE.I GUESS I AM A FATHER ANYWAYS HUH?THE LORD HAS A PLAN FOR EVERYONE INCLUDING ME SO I WILL JUST WAIT AND SEE.
Posted on: Wed, 23 Jul 2014 04:24:48 +0000
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