FAN SECRET Years ago while I was with my husband he wasnt much of a family man. He seriously acted as though his kids werent his problem. I would tell him I need money or a ride to pay a bill. He would say I cant, I have to work(16 hours a day) go ask my brother. I would tell him his kid needs to go out of town to a specialist, of course he cant go ask the brother. No matter what needed to be done he sent me to his brother for years! One day I told him you keep sending me to your brother when your family needs you. You send me to your brother when your kids need a dad. He is basically doing your job so why doesnt he get the good part? He said like what? I said like kids that call him daddy and wait for him to get off work (they basically did wait to get to see him daily at this point) and a woman to hold and love. He said eh and shrugged it off. But he continued to send me to his brother for the family needs. So I said again you continuously expect your brother to be the man of your house, when are you going to realise Im not his woman? He said I know your not his woman Oh and the husband was constantly cheating which is why he worked damn near 16 hours a day for an almost $400 Paycheck on a good week. Well eventually I got tired of it. He sent me to the brother to ask him to go with me to Iowa for my brothers wedding. I lost it! I told him you are a worthless husband, a useless father, youre always running out the door and sending me to ask your brother to be the man of my house. This is crazy! He said well what am I supposed to do? I gotta work. I said thats okay. One day Im going to need something very private and personal but dont worry, Ill ask your brother!! I threatened that for a few years until he got bored by it. He was working and staying about 100 miles away and had his own place there. Once every week or two he would stop in for a few hours, sometimes overnight and then leave again. He was trying to tell me he was leaving one night and I had enough!! I told him that he finally succeeded! I said thats fine! When you leave take everything because I love your brother more than I love you. Im done! He left that night and I was in a state of shock for about two weeks. I finally pulled myself out of the shock and went on with life as though nothing had changed. He came back to check in after a few weeks and I told him the state of shock I was in for weeks and told him I was sorry, but I dont want him back. We talked, we agreed, he left, and I started a relationship with the brother. My SO is my brother in law... I have never been more content in a relationship. I have never been so at ease in my life. I had no idea how nice a relationship could be until I had a normal one. I am happy. My husband still visits. We are friends now. He has been in a relationship with a woman since we broke up. We will never divorce but we will NEVER be together again. Life is good with his brother and since weve gotten over the Jerry Springer aspect of it all it feels right. Anyway, thats my confession.
Posted on: Tue, 03 Dec 2013 14:07:01 +0000
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