FOUR TYPES OF LOVE There is much confusion today on the subject of love because we are limited to only one English word (love) with a broad range of meanings. For example, if I said, I love my wife, I love my dog, I love apple pie, obviously I am not talking about love in the same degree or definition. In the New Testament period there were four major Greek words that were used. Eros Love - A word that was not actually used in the New Testament but was alluded to. It meant physical passion; its gratification and fulfillment. The Greek word is probably not used in the New Testament because the origin of the word came from the mythical god Eros, the god of love. It is inferred in many scriptures and is the only kind of love that God restricts to a one-man, one-woman relationship within the bounds of marriage (Heb. 13:4; Song 1:13; 4:5-6; 7:7-9; 8:10; 1 Cor. 7:25; Eph. 5:31). Storge Love - Storge is the natural bond between mother and infant, father, children, and kin. William Barclay states, We cannot help loving our kith and kin; blood is thicker than water (N.T. Words, 1974). Phileo Love - Phileo love is a love of the affections. It is delighting to be in the presence of another, a warm feeling that comes and goes with intensity. The Bible encourages it but it is never a direct command. God never commands phileo since this type of love is based on the feelings. God Himself did not phileo the world but rather operated in agape love towards us. I cannot have a warm tender feeling toward an enemy but I can agape love them. Agape Love - Agape love is Gods kind of love. It is seeking the welfare and betterment of another regardless of how we feel. Agape does not have the primary meaning of feelings or affection. Jesus displayed it when he went to the cross and died for you and me regardless of how He felt. In the gospels Jesus prayed, Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless, not as I will, but as thou wilt (Mt. 26:39; Mk. 14:36; Lk. 22:41-43; Jn. 18:11). Jesus sought the betterment of you and me, regardless of His feelings. Matthew 7:12 states it this way, So whatever you wish that men would do to you, do so to them; for this is the law and the prophets
Posted on: Wed, 05 Mar 2014 13:27:09 +0000
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