FROM INBOX Please post anonymous... Im new to this group, actually, to any group of this kind. Ive been separated from my spouse for 7 months now, we were married for 7 years and had 2 boys (4 & 6). The first 4 years of our marriage were incredible, best time of my life. Then this woman came in the picture and he started changing with me. I didnt want to get all paranoid about their friendship at first because I wanted to show him that I trusted him......but time passed and I became a wall in our home. I tried to talk to him (he didnt want to talk). Then the next 2 years were a nightmare always wondering who is he texting? who is he talking to? who is in his head now? He kept telling me that he was just tired from work, so I gave him time and space.....2012 a woman calls me telling me that she was my husbands girlfriend (she worked with him), and lets me know about their torrid affair. She tells me she is pregnant with his child. I faced him and he admitted everything, but kept telling me that she was a mistake, that he didnt love her, that he loved me and our boys, that he wanted to work things and go to counseling. So I gave him a chance...thinking more about my boys and not breaking a family....but....what kind of family?? One where the dad cheated? he was attached to that woman now by a new baby. But I still tried to stay in our marriage.....I did love him. After 3 months, I cheats again with that woman. She called me to let me know they were having a girl....I had to take my boys and leave, I couldnt take that kind of life anymore. I moved back to my parents and he moved up north for a year. Even when my head tells me that walking away from that marriage was the best for me and my boys.....how can I feel happy again? was i a loser?
Posted on: Thu, 27 Mar 2014 11:07:02 +0000
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