Facebook i got a question for yall.... A woman has 2 kids 13year old girl and 14 years old boy and they have the same father. The father has not always been present in their lives consistently but only sometimes. During those times and over the years he always seemed to favor one child over the other one. He would call one of his son and talk to him arrange to pick him up for weekend and wouldnt even ask his daughter if she wanted to go. On a couple of occasions he would take his son shopping and wouldnt buy his daughter anything. So as the years went on and the kids go older the daughter noticed the her father would always have an excuse to not pick her up or he would get mad at me so he would have to buy her anything. so she stop wanting to even go with him or talk to him at all. I could look in her eyes and tell my baby was hurting. But he would always call and ask for his son for summer and weekends. As a parent i feel like i cant allow him to keep hurting my daughter by making differences between her and my son. Eventually i feel like it will come between their brother and sister relationship. And she will begin to resent her brother for her father actions. I have never tried to keep my kids from they father no matter what the situation was between the two of us. As long as they were safe with him. But now i feel like if their father cant step up and do for both of his kids then i cant allow him to pick one over the other anymore. So would i be wrong to tell him until he is ready to be a father to not only one of his kids but BOTH of them them he cant pick his son up anymore????? I know every child deserves a father but if i let this continue i would be sending a message to my son that this is ok and he will probably would grow up doing the same thing. Please give me your honest opinion on this one.
Posted on: Mon, 01 Sep 2014 03:11:33 +0000
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