#FanSubmittedQuestion Hey, im 19 years old and recently got out of a relationship with a 26 year old...I know its kind of a big age gap but it didnt feel that way we got along at first everything was perfect, it started off a just friends and I was hesitant to give him a chance because of his age and I knew people would be against it but after 5 months of being just friends in February I gave in and gave him the chance he wanted and it honestly was the best choice ever, we went out every weekend I was working he was working we had fun all the time he was like my bestfriend and I could be myself with him but there was one thing that bothered me and that was attention he wanted from his female friends. Its like if you got a good girl that you care about an cares and has love for you and gives you all the attention in the world why feel the need to get attention from other girls? I would try to confront him about the issue and his so called "complimenting" and everytime he would make it a big deal and say I was questioning his loyalty, get mad and not talk to me really for 2 days or so. It got annoying because its like im just curious I wanna know who these females are I mean im protective over whats mine and all but not jealous I just cared and worried about him thats all, I know he a nice guy but you cant be that nice to everyone you have to put females in their place sometimes when you have a girlfriend, I felt like I was in compettition with them at certain times which is not a good feeling I kept telling him I didnt like it and he kept oing which cause us to have thes ame arguments over and over..anyways we broke up because of this continuous lashing out about me questioning him about these females he calls his friends and it hurts alot because he wasnt willing to compromise with the one girl he claimed "he cared so much about" he went from my bestfriend to basically my enemy and its hard to accept the fact that it happened so quickly and no matter what I did I couldnt change anything or make it better.. its been difficult for me lately cuz we spent so much time around each other and the memories and good times just wont go away and now we dont talk at all I honestly feel like we could have worked it out but he didnt want to compromise like I said and he jus left the relationship because he felt I didnt "trust him"...my question is was I wrong for the way I felt? I mean was I right to confront the situations that bothered me without him getting upset and blocking me out? Is it my fault the relationship failed honestly?
Posted on: Fri, 09 Aug 2013 15:40:16 +0000
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