From my blog: 9/30/11 PLEASURE CAN BE PERVERSE Back in the 40s, when radio was the only source of live audible information and entertainment, my mother would listen to a program called Breakfast with Dorothy and Dick. The Dorothy was a gossip reporter and columnist named Kilgallen who became more famous a few years later as a panelist on what seems now to have been a delightfully innocent example of programming called, Whats My Line. Kilgallen coined the question, Is it bigger than a breadbox? when trying to elicit from a guest what it was they did or produced for a living. At night, over dinner, mother frequently scoffed at some inane bit of radio intelligence she had received earlier in the day, such as: Dorothy Kilgallen uses only candles to light her bedroom to keep romance alive in her marriage. The impracticality of such a daily time-wasting, and possibly hazardous routine for a busy woman, and the likelihood that it was all hogwash designed to impress suburban housewives with her sophistication, was not lost on my mother. When I asked her why she listened to someone she obviously disliked, she said, it was for the pleasure of the irritation. I suppose that doesnt make much sense to most people, but I have come to understand it. And I am my mothers daughter. I watch at least a part of Morning Joe every day just to delight in the irritation produced by watching Mika Brzezinskis constant, embarrassingly narcissistic, mugging for the camera. She never fails to produce! Are there any psychologists out there who can explain why it can feel good to be annoyed? * * * * (According to a story titled Who Killed Dorothy Kilgallen by journalist Sara Jordan, Frank Sinatra loathed her, too, and called her the chinless wonder. Maybe the candlelight was more effective than a paper bag over her head.) -30-
Posted on: Wed, 09 Apr 2014 21:57:57 +0000
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