From the inbox: I love this page, it makes me see how supportive everyone is. My bf has been a SEAL for more years than he will admit. We’ve been together for over 2 years, but were high school sweethearts who made stupid mistakes and ended up taking two different paths. We live in different states and due to his work commitments we’d spend more time apart than together even if we lived together. Because of this, I don’t have anyone in the lifestyle with whom I can share my feelings, etc. They are a close community, but I am not part of it because of our living arrangements. I don’t discuss him or his job for privacy and safety. So I’m looking to you all for some advice. How do you deal with the anger you feel when you have to handle life changing events alone? I recently miscarried twins at 9 weeks. He knew I was having complications, but off working. I had to go through the entire thing alone with no communication from him during that time. He was just recently able to call and write and has been very supportive. I find that I am angry with him at not being here. My mind knows he would have dropped everything to be at my side if it was in his power. I know this. He’s shown up for weekend visits when he knows I need him and we call, text, email, Skype, Face Time daily when he is able. Trust me, I know this, but I still have this anger towards him. We should be able to see each other soon and I need to get through this before then because I don’t want our limited time to be filled with my roller coaster of emotions. Can everyone lend some support and advice, thank you! Jennifer
Posted on: Fri, 26 Jul 2013 22:01:05 +0000
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