From the inbox: Need some help, and advice please! :( My fiancé has been home from his deployment for almost a year now. We fight constantly and he never wants to talk about it. When hes gone for drill or on a camping trip I feel like we did when we first started dating; so lovey dovey and missing each other like crazy.. But the second he comes home its back to fighting. We only kiss, hug, or talk when I initiate... I even tried not doing anything one day and we hardly spoke, or even hugged each other. We live together!! And its getting so hard for me. I feel like Ive tried every option other than counseling... Ive tried making it so easy for him. I work 8-5 monday to Friday and some days overtime.. I pay all the bills and rent, I do the grocery shopping, I cook, I clean, I do the dishes and the laundry. All he does is go to school and his part time job. I feel like the man in this relationship and Im just getting so exhausted. I want someone to take care of me and feel less stressed everyday... Ive even considered picking up a second job to make ends meet.. We had to postpone the wedding because I couldnt pay for that and our bills. We went on a vacation with my family and I paid for everything! 1200$!!! I dont know what to do and Im scared Im losing faith in us. Please help! Weve been together for 2 years and I dont want to let go. My family thinks Im crazy for staying, but its hard to give up on someone you went through a year long deployment with. Please tell me there is a light at the end of the tunnel and Im not wasting my time. -owner
Posted on: Mon, 06 Oct 2014 03:35:50 +0000
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