Get into this Love letter to Studs and Bois! #ProjectSpeakOutLoud #SpeakOutLoud This is a love letter to the studs and bois who don’t get enough love songs, shout outs, or kudos. To the studs and bois who wonder if they’ll ever get taken care of, I promise you surely will. There is love of every shape and kind here for you in our lady lovin’ community. There is a home for you in our hearts. "...But you aren’t always like me, and that’s okay, too. I’m sorry if I’ve ever demonized your differences. I do see the way you’re always put on the defensive. Just because your muscles may be larger than mine does not mean that you must always be tough. I do see the way men violate you when their masculinity is threatened by your strength. I will not look away anymore. You puff out your chest, but sometimes we femmes break your heart and then wonder why you’re hurting. Sometimes, we even judge you when your partners aren’t femme enough for us, as if we have the right to categorize, standardize, or pathologize your attractions. I am sorry. Let’s open up the dialogue: teach me how to stand up for you the way I’d like you to fight for me"
Posted on: Fri, 19 Jul 2013 18:43:11 +0000