Good morning all! It is time to get out of bed and make sure that we enjoy today, to make sure that we make today another great day! May be a day where you can open our eyes and see that you have found the one and that you dont have to look for her anymore. Most people like the feeling of being free and single, but at some point, you are bound to start looking for something more, something deeper. You finally set out to find love and some are luckier than others at finding it. The funny thing is, when you look for love, it’s harder to find. It’s not something you prepare for, but rather something you stumble upon, in the good way, of course. I mean, as I’m sure you have been told at some point or another, there aren’t really any words to describe what love is. It’s just love. When it’s real, you just know. If you think you might have found love, but aren’t exactly sure, here is a bit of advice from my own personal experience. You know that she’s the one when... You think about her all the time. You wake up and go to sleep thinking about her and from the moment you wake up in the morning to the moment you go to sleep at night, she occupies part of your mind. How does your brain even know to think of that person first thing in the morning? You think about her first. In order to fall in love, you must love yourself, first. To be in love with someone, however, means thinking of yourself second. Love is defined by sacrifices, and when it’s real? You won’t even mind making them. In fact, they should make you happy, and that’s probably the craziest part. You see her everywhere. Once you find real love, everything will remind you of her. It’s your body’s way of telling you, “You can stop looking for other girls now.” Before you met the one, you might have juggled a few girls at the same time, and still found yourself tempted to say hello to that girl you thought was a good looking at the bar. Take it from me, it’s almost impossible to do the “juggling bit” when everything you see can be traced back to one person. You want to spend your alone time with her. You could be the most asocial, introverted, anti people person on the face of the planet, that will all go out the window once you find someone you love. The nights you once cherished, for the sole fact that you were alone, will eventually assume the form of date nights with her. That’s what happens when you truly find someone who you believe is your better half, the me time you previously spent and cherished, by yourself, will now just feel vacant. You are together, you remember every little detail. What you ordered on your first date, what she wore the first time you met her. Even the most random, seemingly pointless, stuff will become ingrained in your memory. It’s unconscious, the product of something, or rather someone, genuinely having an impact on your life. As soon as you say goodbye, you will already start missing her. When you find the right girl, you will crave her as soon as you say goodbye, and you will constantly be looking ahead to meeting her again. There’s no such thing as awkward silence. Step one in finding the right person is finding someone you thrive with from a conversational standpoint. Step two, which is always more difficult, lies with finding someone you can thrive with in silence, too. When you can appreciate a quiet moment with someone, past the urge to flood the air with conversational filler, it’s never awkward. In fact, it’s the ultimate comfort. Although there might not be any words being spoken, at least not verbally, a lot of times love tends to communicate around body language, anyway. When you are with someone you connect with, moments of silence are never truly silent. You say I’m sorry, even when you are not wrong. When it’s real, arguments will never last that long. You could be bickering over the colour of the sky, it really doesn’t matter, before long you will realise that being right, for once, isn’t atop your list of priorities. Thus, you concede that the sky is green, and look to pick and choose battles among the people in your life who aren’t on your team. God knows there will be enough of those. During the heat of the moment, when you will feel your own pride start to crawl up your throat, true love will remind you to swallow it and focus on what really matters. Even if that means being wrong in an argument you probably won’t remember the next day. You never look for an apology from her. Love is quite ironic. You will be eager to apologise, even when you know you are not wrong, yet you will never really expect an apology in return, even after those times when she may be at fault. As I hope you have already gathered, I’m not referring to any arguments of lasting consequence, but, rather, the more trivial stuff. For those, love requires no apology. There should never be any grudges held in love. Sorry is just a word, and love is the strongest of all emotions. It isn’t true love if one word can suddenly reverse your feelings, one way or the other. Remember, if she is the one for you, make sure that she knows. Hopefully, you will be the one for her too. youtu.be/FcHpIRamLFU
Posted on: Sat, 29 Nov 2014 08:44:15 +0000