Good morning everyone Im sitting here drinking my coffee thinking of all my family and friends who are experiencing hardships in there lives and my heart goes out to you. This is a new year were heading into lets make it the best it can be. There are times we are tested and some of us that are knocked down to the piont where we think we just cant make it but Im here to tell you you are all strong enough to do this. Reach down deep within yourself and tell yourself I can and will do this. Make that change. You can choose to sit in self pity and keep asking yourself why me, why cant I just be happy. Why does this shit always happen to me. Because we allow to. Or you can rise above all the failures weve endured in our lives and use them as stepping stones to our future. You CANT change the past, period. But we CAN change our future, how bad do you want it. Ill be 57 tomorrow and I gotta say through all my life I have been tested the piont that I thought Id never make it but I look back and think how blessed I am to have grown through all these hardships. I will cherish all the good times and let go of the bad with no regrets. Close those doors behind you so he can open new ones in front of you. Make this the best year ever. Love yourself first before you give it to someone else. Get rid of those who bring drama and negativity into your lives. Choose who you want in your inner circle and keep the others outside of it. We only have this one life. No do overs, no seconds, this is it. Be happy and positive and you will reep the benefits. Im experiencing that right now. Again hes closed those doors behind us for a reason. He cant open new ones until we close the ones behind us. I heard Joel OSteen one say its like driving a car, the front windshield is your future, its huge, the rear view mirror is your past theres a reason the windshield is so huge and the rearview mirror is so small because its your past. Get rid of regrets. Remember we cant change our past but we can change our future. I know I just learned in the last couple months what I thought was the end for me turned out to be the best thing that could of happened. He closed a chapter in my life that was not in his plans for me. Yes it hurts and yes you grieve but thats part of the healing process. Its up to you how long you allow it. In time it goes away and you start to realize that damn Im really ok with this change. Im actually happy again. I cant wait to see what my future holds. God Bless you all. I wish you all a Happy New Year and DONT STOP DANCING
Posted on: Tue, 30 Dec 2014 16:04:17 +0000