HON TAIWO AMBASSADOR FOR WOMEN AFFAIRS SAYS OUR HUSBAND SHOULD BE OUR SMALL GODS. There are million of elite women who has loosed their husbands due to the way they rate them. Some of them too even think their husband is to be treat just like a working partner. No, it should nt be. Our husband should be our small Gods. When I was attending one church while growing up, I saw lot of women who gave their Pastors lot of respect they never give their lover at home. Theyd kneel for their pastor, but theyve even forgotten when last they huge their hubby, let alone kneel for them at home. Women, I shall say this to your ears, youll recieve back whatever U sow today interms of how U treat your husband. Some ladies has denied their husband the truth feeling just because they want to worship God. Who tell U that God even need your worship if U dont love & worship the person U always see?. We all worship God because of what we need from Him. God said it in the revelation in the Bible, He counselled women & men to respect, fear, & love themselves who they always see before they love, fear, worship & respect God who they never see. So, where are women of nowadays doing the will of God than the will of themselves? See good example of a woman who has the real feeling for her husband. With downcast eyes, Kate confided in me, “Ive a hard time respecting my husband. & at the sametime, I want to be obedient to God’s command, but I don’t want to be dishonest to my feelings.” To every women in the Shoes of this type of lady, please God doesn’t command a wife to feel respectful toward her hubby. She is to be respectful. Her responsibility is to obey God; not her feelings. A wise woman once told me, “If U want a truly fine husband, respect him at the level at which U want him to reach. A manll usually not rise above the level @which his wife respects him.” This is a general principle, not a hard & fast rule because God does not put accountability or responsibility for a man’s charactr on his wife. Nevertheless, strong evidence indicates a woman holds great power to make or break a man. In his book His Needs, Her Needs, W Harly amends the saying “Behind every great man is a great woman” to “Behind every great man is an admiring wife.” Something in a man needs the respect of his wife. He thrives & grows toward godliness when his need is fulfilled. This explains why God emphatically says, “The wife must see to it that she respects her husband” (Ephesians 5:33 NASB). Here are 10 Steps Towards Respecting Your Husband:- 1. Pray for him dailyand trust God to answer your requests. - Pray for his well-being, wisdom, protection, blessings, guidance, knowledge, spiritual maturity, success, purity, strength in temptation, etc. - Look for God’s answers to your prayers. - Thank God for working in your family. - Thank God for your husband. - Pray for your attitude. 2. Remember that God has put your husband in a position of leadership & He will lead U through your husband. 3. Make a list of your husband’s qualities that U appreciate. - Review & add to your list regularly. 4. Tell your husband what U appreciate about him. Tell others what you appreciate about him. 5. Don’t criticize your husband to others, especially your children. 6. Look for the positive side of things that U may find irritating. If U find it boring when he spends time telling U about his bad day, remember that @ least he is talking to U, spending time with U, sharing his concerns with U, bringing U into his confidence, & giving U the chance to be an encourager & helper. 7. Respond to his loving advances with enthusiasm. 8. If U are concernedabout a decision your husband has made, ask him the following: - “I’m confused about ___. Can U explain it to me?” - “Can we talk about ___? I feel uncomfortable about ___.” - Don’t ask: “WHY in the world would U do it that way?” or ask “Why?” in any way that implies U think he is foolish. 9. Respect his likes and dislikes. If he likes a particular food, make a point of serving that regularly. If he hates the color purple, don’t wear purple in his presence. If he likes U to wear perfume, do it. 10. If U find yourself thinking negative thoughts about your husband, stop and choose to think of something else – especially things from your positive quality list. Remember, God is working on U & your husband. U can both learn from your failures as well as your successes. Give God the freedom to teach your husband through failure. In the same way, give God the freedom to teach you to trust Him through your husband’s failure. The issue of love & respect is act of both husband & wife truly. But U wives need to; Love your husband, respect your husband & see him as your small Gods on earth. Choose your huaband as your communicator. & learn how to make him happy always with your speech. I stand to be corrected, should U find anything wrong with my tips here. Dear sir/ma, I am on whtapp, 07037759275. Thank you all & stay blessed. Amen.
Posted on: Sun, 25 Jan 2015 05:30:39 +0000
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