HOW TO AVOID SOME TROUBLES FROM CLOSE FAMILY AND FRIENDS. Dont seek for help or assistance from them even if youre 100% sure they can. Its better to ask a total stranger/outsiders for assistance than family because you wont be that hurt if they dont help you compared to your close family and friends. If they(family) voluntarily help you without you asking them, well and good, show them that youre grateful and your appreciation. When you know youre being avoided, respect yourself and help them out by dodging them if you happen to see them first. When you call them on phone up to seven different times and you went further to send text messages in case they lost your phone number and they didnt pick your calls nor reply your text, stop calling but have a witness so that tomorrow, theyll not be able to hold it against you. If they win lottery or hit jackpots, please leave them alone because if youre broke/ poor in Nigeria, family will see you as a bad omen or plague, though some will feel like giving you sadaqa(alms giving) when beggars are not readily available. If you know youll be hurt by their actions then STAY AWAY/KEEP OFF. But people that dont know what transpired in the past will try to judge you but dont give a damn provided your conscience is clear. Let GOD and your conscience judge you. Never be envious or jealous about others success/progress so that your prayers can be answered. In this world, theres nothing permanent, not even good or bad time. Dont CURSE or INSULT them when they refuse to help/assist you, have that belief that its only Almighty GOD that assigns helpers and if He doesnt give somebody power to help, no matter how you pester that person you feel can help, he wont help you because he has not being directed by Almighty ONE to help you. A total stranger can be of great help when he or she is being directed by Him and Him alone. Pray good prayers for everyone. Most importantly, pray that your children should never encounter what youve encountered or still encountering. Never give up as long as youre alive and healthy. And never you forget people that visit and call you time to time just to know how youre faring, its not all about money. Anyone that has shown you that s/he cares a lot about you through your thick and thin, respect and adore that person(s) for the rest of your life because such people are very rare. Remember its not the first person that goes to market that returns home first. May Almighty Allah send us people that will meet us at our points of needs, Ameen.
Posted on: Sun, 12 Oct 2014 08:55:50 +0000
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