Hello Zane Please keep me anonymous. Im aware you receive many request for advice so my email may not receive a response. My issue is not about a man mistreating me or baby daddys or being the other woman but its about being 44, educated and a professional attractive female and being lonely. I have no children and I currently reside in Spain; Im a math professor at a college on a military installation.. Ive been here 4 years and leave in 4 months. The entire time Ive been here not one guy has approached me or even said hello (there are Americans here working for the Govt). The women are very distant and cold (most are wive of service members). Ill say hello and most of them will look me up and down and keep walking. I was married for 12 years and that ended badly with infidelity on his side. I have a very good heart and Im open to meet people but Ive been unlucky in love. The last guy I met in Texas where Im from was schizophrenic - found this out after dating for a while. So that sent me running. Im not sure what to do. When I step out Im always dressed very nice, a little makeup (I prefer a more natural look when it comes to makeup) hair always together, coco brown skin, in shape, dont smoke nor drink and I dont look my age. I own property, just graduated with my doctorate degree and Ive traveled the world, etc I cant understand why I cant meet a nice, handsome and respectable guy. Ive met a few and weve had great convo, they always comment on how amazing it must be to travel, how attractive I am but then I have to leave to return to my job ...Maybe thats the issue me not being settled in one place. They always seem to say so you are leaving again and when are you returning. After this job Ill return to Texas and homestead. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. MY RESPONSE: A lot of women are in the same boat. They have everything going on for them but are rarely, if ever, approached. This is the new normal so dont feel badly about it. Living in Spain, being intelligent, attractive, and successful can intimidate a lot of men, keeping it real. It also may have a lot to do with your travel schedule, as you stated. You have four months before you head back for good. I would spend this time developing a new style so that when you do get back, it can be on and popping. Keep talking to men who interest you and see what happens. The man for you will pop into your life when you least expect it and he may not come in the package that you prefer. There are plenty of good men out here being overlooked as well. I am sure there is someone for you. Good luck.
Posted on: Sat, 27 Dec 2014 01:39:33 +0000
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