Hi Zane please keep me anonymous. Im a 28 yr old with four children. I have 3 with my fiance and One on the way. my fiance is 31. My problem is that he goes out alot and drinks everyday. sometimes he stays out at night and dont come home till 9am. Its been going on for a while. He doesnt call or text me. my other problem is that I dont get any time to myself. No piece of mind no anything. Im entitled to some alone time. while he clearly has all the time in the world to hisself. I need some advice. plz help MY RESPONSE: You are right, you need some time alone. I would suggest trying to connect with some other mothers/couples who might trade off time with you. That is what I do. My youngest son has hang sessions because he said he is too old to call them play dates with friends and we take turns with other couples by having kids spend the weekends, or at least days over the other house. As for your fiance, there is no excuse for him to be out until nine in the morning and definitely not on the regular. I realize that you are pregnant with your fifth child, the fourth by him, but that is not a relationship that makes sense. He knows that he is mistreating you and the children but he is doing it anyway. I am not sure how long you have been engaged but four kids in, he should have made it official by now. This is a tough situation and I am going to pray for you but first make sure you have a healthy baby. That is a lot on your plate because your kids must all be fairly young. Good luck.
Posted on: Sun, 06 Jul 2014 13:32:55 +0000
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