How to Tackle Your Boyfriend Not Making Enough Time for You Before arriving at any conclusion, be sure that youre not over-reacting to the situation . Talk to a friend, let things out. See what he/she has to say about whats going on. You dont want to be racking your brains for something that isnt even a problem at the end of the day. Wait - Phase I: Once youre sure about your opinion about the situation youre in regarding your relationship, wait. See if the conditions prevail over a long period of time. Say, waiting for 5-6 days should do the trick. If hes not been texting/ calling as frequently as he used to, or isnt being able to make time to meet up throughout this time-period, its time for the next step. Tell him. There isnt going to be a solution to this problem if he doesnt know youre having one, and if you dont know his side of the story. Your motive is to simply let him know. See how he reacts. Ask him. See what he has to say. Ask him why its happening. Whether theres a problem that he is in for, and how you can be of some help. Have an open mind to everything that he has to say to you... Prove to be a good and understanding listener. Also, if he says hes been keeping busy, build a conversation and ask what exactly IS keeping him busy, and how long its going to go on for. Wait - Phase II: Wait, and watch. Do things get back to normal? If not, either talk to him again, or shoot hints (in a mocking/ serious manner) that youre still waiting for him to get back. All in vain?: Its time for the Tit-for-Tat game. Theres only two possibilities in the situation youre going through. Either hes really caught up, or hes just not trying hard enough. In the course of time, he might text or call you when he gets free, probably late at night. Try doing what he does. Say youre busy or sleepy, and that you cant talk. Yes, itll hurt initially, but remember, No Pain, No Gain. Your motive is to just make him realize how youve been feeling. Dont overdo it and mistake this move for your time for taking revenge because thats not what its about. Just keep in mind, Ill make you feel the way I do, so you know what I feel. Final Confrontation: Nows the moment for you to decide whats going on between the two of you. Either sort things out, or part ways. See how everythings been going, what he says. It has to last if hes into it. AND if the two of you are ready for the struggle, of course. #Tips Keeping a calm, cool, and content self while dealing with these situations is a MUST. Anger/ anxiety is only going to land you in bigger soups--if not with your boyfriend, then with friends and family, or worse, with yourself.
Posted on: Mon, 28 Jul 2014 08:45:15 +0000
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