How to make friends (Part 1) Charity starts at home, friendship starts at one self Befor you become friend to another person you have to be friend with yourself first, that means You like yourself To be able to like yourself, you have to Accept the fact that nobody is perfect, considering what are your good qualities, enforce them; what are your bad characters, correct them, but keep in mind that you have to be patient with yourself, changes take time, and some of the things cannot be changed at all, so you have to live with it or find other behaviors to ameliorate the bad effects. Compliment or reward yourself when you have done something positive. Avoid negative persons If somebody has hurt you intentionally, avoid him. He is likely to hurt you again because people do what their Unconscious dictates, and their Unconscious is the accumulation and integration of data of experiences since birth, it is not going to change easily! If someone, has been good to you consistently, don’t take him for granted, don’t take advantage of him, be nice to him keep him as friend for life Don’t do anything that you will be ashamed of Do good for other Don’t be careless, and put yourself in jeopardy and harm ways All these efforts will produce positive outcomes for yourself that will make yourself have good self esteem be proud of you and like you. As Buddha said “You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”
Posted on: Wed, 08 Oct 2014 04:20:42 +0000
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