Huge note to self: there is NO NORMAL REACTION to ABNORMAL SITUATIONS. (Ie: When you are dealing with someone who has DISTORTED and DISORDERED THOUGHT PROCESSES/THINKING, such as PERSONALITY DISORDERS, etc.,...hence the word DISORDER!!) You simply cannot REASON with someone who has ILLOGICAL THOUGHTS, (as long as they are in DENIAL of their illness, and in SELF PROTECT/SELF PRESERVATION mode). Trying to do so becomes what is known as a MENTALLY ILL CONVERSATION, that only goes around in circles, and goes nowhere, settles nothing and only becomes an argument/fight. The person is not truly trying to come to an agreement and RESOLUTION, but instead is only RIGHT FIGHTING and SELF PROTECTING. I must learn to recognize this, and not allow myself to be engaged under the false belief, and DESPERATE HOPE, that they have the same intent that I have, (and which would normally be the case with others as well), of LOGICALLY communicating to come to a RESOLUTION!! This is just so very distressing, and so very difficult to do!! :( (I, and my children, could very much use some PRAYERS...if you have any to spare!! Thank you from the bottom of my fully broken and desperate heart!! God Bless you!!) ♡
Posted on: Wed, 13 Aug 2014 21:33:39 +0000
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