Human Behaviour Tip: If you miss someone, tell them. If you love - TopicsExpress



          

Human Behaviour Tip: If you miss someone, tell them. If you love someone, show it !!!!...........in my opinion(just feeling wordy and I need to express myself)when you truly know the meaning of love(as in relationship love)and the difference between love and lust,you are not domineering to a detriment,you know to not run off in a frustrated huff,and if you really know yourpartner,really know them,you can talk to them,calmly,voice your concerns or feelings and work out problems,with out raising your voice.You dont make excuses,say words just to appease,are vague about the relationship.You are honest,even if it may hurt another in the long run,if they arent to desperately dysfunctional,because they deserve that.It is better to know your heart and say the truth,THE REAL TRUTH AND NOT SOMETHING TO SAVE FACE,than to prolong something that will never be a truly meaningful situation and never allow outside influences to influence your mind and heart.People always have deeper meanings to their actions and if they express why they do something that you feel is unacceptable,they deserve their concerns to be recognized so that you both can reconcile the differences and move on with a real and loving relationship.Everyone has boundaries and to make a relationship work,those boundaries need to be respected.If you cross one,then acknowledge that and dont make a see through excuse in an effort to condone a behavior that may ruin the whole deal.If you cant establish boundaries and respect your loves boundaries you are simply not going to grow as a partnership and hearts will ache,break and bitterness may follow.Life is too short,hearts too fragile,communication too nonexistent to expect a harmonious outcome.And always remember,ACTIONS SHOW YOUR TRUE FEELINGS,WORDS ARE BACKED UP BY ACTIONS OR DISPELLED BY THEM.I write this for myself......and maybe it just might help others,even if only one person gets it,then Ive done what I needed to do as a perspicacious and loving human today.If my rant offends anyone,then un-follow me.It wont hurt my feelings.
Posted on: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 18:09:20 +0000

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