I Hear Say Women Love Money? Good Evening, Last year,I was discussing with my younger sister and she told me something. Okay, A guy who is wooing a girl,takes her out on a date, after spending time together, She is ready to leave and the guy gives her 5000 naira as her transport fare back home(in a distance that would actually cost not more than 100 naira) *Clears Throat* Most men are never tired to preach that women love money,when they themselves use money in trying to impress women. why wont a woman Love the money you claim to have? if you claim to have, why complain when youre asked for it? Okay from the above story; Why should a guy give a girl #5000 for TP in just a distance that would cost #100? What does that action insinuate? obviously hes trying to give an impression that money no be problem and hes more than just capable. *Wait* Dont tell me he could be testing the girl Why would you test a Human being? You cant expect perfection from any mortal,So testing a woman with money is too unrealistic an expectation that she pass your test. Lets be real and sincere, even if im in her shoes, Ill collect the money happily and Ill have a course to be glad that Ive met a problem solver. #Hehehe In reality,any man who spoils a girl with excess money is making it difficult for her to date a guy who is not too capable and also making it difficult for her to accept things the way they are. Okay lets consider this; Assuming I woo that same girl after her meeting with the first man and we went on a date,after everything i give her #500 for transport (Although its much higher than her TP) She cant easily accept that Ive given her transport,and her chances of not accepting me becomes higher not because shes a bad girl but because of the previous guy who taught her how much her transport is supposed to be ( #Lol) and therefore gives her a reason to reject lower than that. Definitely, this is so where cheating comes in,Because if she truly loves me,shell accept me but shell keep the problem solver of a guy, just to be financially updated and feel the comfort of life. In essence, men mostly are the reason why women develop love for their money than their personality. Everyone requests from God because he by his actions shows that he is capable. Why wouldnt she make requests when you put up a capable impression? Conclusively,Cut your coat according to your cloth. Stop faking your pockets size because women wont pity you, After all,Them no send you. Impressing a girl today,means impressing her forever (Thats if you want her to stay) Please be yourself, a woman can only love you when you are not pretending to be what youre not. Shell Love you even if youre not capable but just be real from the very beginning. A lady who breakups with a guy because hes now broke is not a wicked girl. the guy gave her an impression that hell never get broke someday!!! Be wise!!! Criticisms are welcomed but in a constructive manner. Written by; Solomon Franklin Buchi Bartholomew. Life Coach/Motivational Speaker.
Posted on: Mon, 12 Jan 2015 19:00:21 +0000
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