I VOW to never Yell at Anyone, ever... Join me? Allow me to make the case.. I havent yelled at anyone since forever. Today Im just putting it out there that I will NEVER, EVER, yell at someone again. Even in the face of someone SCREAMING in my face I will not be a Mirror to that. This Vow comes from my own witnessing of people close to me. One person yells at another, the other yells back... Hurtful things are said. More damage.. Someone yells at me Im gonna yell back at them! Really?! Who are you yelling back for? Is it for them? Is it to temporarily make yourself feel better because you yelled back? Maybe first we need to cut through the BS that its about sticking up for ourselves and just call it what yelling at someone really is, and that is, a really big Ego Trip, even if its your response to being yelled at. Speak softly & intently with a Non Self Serving Ego Posture. Youre more likely to be heard. People are immune to yelling because everyone else does it. Yelling at another person, even in response, is F U C K I N G St00pid. Its just an ego trip that causes more Damage. Jesus Christ, Martin Luther King, Ghandi, Mother Teresa, Dalai Lama, none of them Yelled at another human being. They inspired more people into being awesome people more than anyone who yells at another human being. You know this is what is right, and what is noble, just by the fact that most people Yell at other people. Most people Justify Yelling at someone who yelled at them first so you know its whats right and noble to no longer yell at people. Find out what most people are doing, how they spend their time, their money, how they think, how they justify their ego trip, and do the Complete Opposite. One last thought I have about yelling at people.. Its completely Lazy! You may physically burn an extra half calorie, but, for the Brain its sheer laziness to not become a better communicator. People whose messages are actually Heard are reserved for the Non Lazy People. Lazy people on an ego trip not willing to become better communicators will continue to be surrounded by people who are immune to their messages. Your bank account will suffer... your personal relationships will make you sick... Your personal and professional lives will be limited... Your spirit will be tormented.. Im totally Selling You on No More Yelling at another Person, ever. Its good for everyone around you... It could eventually catch on and become popular to find better ways to build relationships with human beings and have your messages heard. Condition your blood pressure to neither go up or down in the face of being yelled at and youre on your way to having your messages heard by other people. Now you can make more than a lick of difference and have more Peace than stress. Is it worth it? YES... It is more than worth it. Whose in on No More Yelling at another Human Being? - Tom Birkenmeyer
Posted on: Wed, 24 Dec 2014 17:15:11 +0000
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