I am confused with people that think there is 1 or 2 ways to date or get close. I never knew the main formula was to go dancing, see movies or go eating in order to court a person? When in any of those cases do you talk, share history, learn about families or share ideals? I just put more stock into personal time vs yelling over people at a club, dining hall or in a silent movie theater. I can say with full confidence that most of my long and midterm friends are by us sharing EVERY moment we had a chance together. We learned more about each other in action activities like BBQs, house parties, church, volunteering, long drives, vacations...etc! Dont get me wrong! I enjoy dinner but you learn more about a person if you cook with them, I love sharing a good movie but I love making real life movies better and give me a private dance under the moon with the view of the city over a club where Im bumping into people that are happy to spill they $20 drink on us! I just believe personal time is more important than public time when building relationships.
Posted on: Mon, 15 Sep 2014 16:52:15 +0000