I am still so scared . Steve is still in the hospital from his stroke. He is talking a bit better but still needs a lot of care. He might go into a rehab center on Monday . Perhaps a month. Perhaps much much longer. It is all uncertain. Meanwhile, his mom Jenny and i have been at each others throats. First thing out of her mouth when she got here on Tuesday from San Francisco (a 2 hour car trip she got a ride from a friend as she does not drive) was that she was going home on Saturday. I told her the hell shes not. She has to.sign any and all legal docs since Steve and I are not married. She was pissed. She wanted no part of other care instructions (diabetes and how to give injections) saying Steve would never let her do it. As if he would let me do it. Now she tells me I should get a in-home care nurse and then I should take Care of him at night. As if that were a possibility. I dont see someone being here all day while I go to work. And there is no way I can care for him with all the needs he has now. I suggested she move to Modesto and have him stay with her under the same conditions. She is eager to dump all the responsibilities on me. I understand she is a frail 87, but she is also a cold fish. She makes up stories, puts words in my mouth and throws guilt trips on me big time. She seems to think I have all the solutions. Then she says I want to be rid of him so I can continue to tool around. Shoot the only places I go are to work and the gym, oh and grocery shopping. You would think I spend time going to bars and parties from her inference. With this and my own testing for cancer that I have to go through next week, I am feeling broken.
Posted on: Sat, 24 Jan 2015 03:03:50 +0000
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