I found these tips for my female friends who was wondering what a man does...here are 16 for you...Its a celebration of the grown up mans man who knows how to treat a woman. What does this man look like, to me, at least? Well... 1. He is hygienic, but cleans his nails and trims his nose hairs outside of a nail salon. Think about it: Would Hemingway or Gladiator be getting his nails buffed? Methinks not. 2. He can balance both swag and sophistication and a career and a personal life without too many proverbial exclamation points (and certainly not multiple ones in a text message. No, no, no). 3. He reserves his LOL for actual laughter, which he exudes out loud and often. 4. He isnt looking to play pen pal with you through your iPhone because he knows that all text and no play makes Johnny a very dull boy. 5. When hes interested in a woman, he doesnt wait three days to call her, but he does actually call her, and when he does, he asks her out for dinner, makes reservations, picks a great bottle of wine (because he knows how to) and then makes sure she gets home safely. 6. If he wants to see her again, he lets her know, and if he doesnt, he politely lets her know that it was a pleasure to spend time with her, even if it wasnt. He does, however, let her know gently and firmly enough that hes not interested so that she doesnt waste her time thinking it might become something it wont. 7. He reads actual books and newspapers and holds opinions on everything from scotch pairings to world events all the while understanding that not all of his opinions are facts and that not everyone has to agree with him in order for him to maintain his relationships or his manhood. In fact, he enjoys it when you dont agree with him because it means he gets to indulge you in a good debate or leave you thinking a little bit harder about things than when you sat down in front of him. 8. He opens doors and takes coats, not because he feels a woman is weak, but because he is strong enough to show that he cares about the comfort of those around him. 9. Sure, he might want to get into a womans bed, but hes also interested in getting into her head as experience has shown him that seduction is a delicate dance and the man who resides in her mind has conquered every other part of her. 10. He appreciates a woman who shows she cares for him, but he isnt interested in being courted. He enjoys taking the lead in courting and doesnt need to be chased because hes in desperate need of an ego stroke. He also wont play puppy dog to a woman who takes advantage of this. 11. He doesnt look to be anyones father or savior, and he doesnt pretend to be the leading man in any womans fairy tale. Hes just a man looking for a partner who can slay her own dragons, pay her own bills and explore the world alongside him. 12. He looks for a woman who doesnt need him, but wants him, not for money or the happiness or a baby or a safety net, but solely for who he is. 13. He has a career, a hobby, a family of close friends and a favorite way to have his steak prepared and he isnt the least bit intimidated when the woman in front of him shares these qualities; quite the contrary, it makes him want her more. 14. He has taken the time to get to know himself and has a strong understanding of his own character and convictions, what he values and what he doesnt. He is a man who is honest with himself about himself and therefore is OK being honest with those around him. 15. He takes as much pride in the way he treats women hes with as he does his job and the way he looks. 16. Hes not the bad boy, a good boy, or a boy at all; hes a man. A leading man, and hes looking not for a good girl, but a great woman. One who shares all of the solid qualities that he brings to the table, and perhaps, can teach him something along the way. Hes willing to wait and work for this woman, to fight for her and will gladly hold out for her as long as he needs to. But when she comes along, he doesnt sit on the fence; hes smart enough to know when hes gotten damned lucky. And when she finds him, she should be smart enough to know the same.
Posted on: Sat, 03 Jan 2015 03:06:34 +0000
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