I had to write this in my group today. But thought it was great for the general public to read as well.... so sharing...... I wanted to try to address an issue that occurred today. These are just my feelings on the issue and you are welcome to disagree. Everyone is in a different place and experience in regards their Pain, Disability, Economic and family circumstances. It is a natural response to tell someone who is feeling desperate to keep a positive attitude. I have probably done it myself on numerous occasions. However, when it comes to the pain levels and depression EDS evokes. Sometimes it is just not the correct time or place depending on the kind of support the person is asking for. Also comparing ones circumstances is not a good idea. Its fine to share your personal experience but to tell someone they should be grateful to have something when they are already down could be hurtful. I could tell 100% that things that were said today were said with the best of intentions. Its just that when people are in a certain state of mind it might not be the right time. I made an analogy earlier about Telling someone who is Clinically depressed just to think positively. Its just not helpful in their state of mind. Robin Williams would be the prime example. Thanks for reading. I just want people to be aware of how certain people may be affected by certain words at certain times. And some people are just more sensitive than others. If anyone has anything to add or disagrees you are welcome to respond. Have a great weekend!
Posted on: Sat, 16 Aug 2014 00:43:59 +0000
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