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I have always wanted to be an AGONY AUNT (I am a terrible counselor though)! My USP lies in the fact that I trivialize peoples woes so much that they get disgusted and the focus shifts (for the time being). I decide to take my counseling to this media today...I feel some kinda moral responsibility (despite running the risk of sounding silly)! :P Well, this goes out to this generation of young people (young at heart ;))...Dont fight with your partners unnecessarily. Fights constitute an important part of our lives and we get to hone our argumentative skills by fighting with parents, friends and partners. With regard to partners, I think, a feeling of possession creeps in and that makes things worse. A RELATIONSHIP, obligates both the participants to stay faithful and relinquish their individual spaces to start a SHARED life consensually. If you feel that one is not complying, LET GO (of the rule or the relationship as the situation may demand). Check whether you are being extra finicky about the rules or the compliance of them. Do not ask your partner about your stance. It will be biased. Ask an objective friend or a friendly parent/ guardian. If fights get the better of your relationship,then somethings is definitely wrong. Retract, introspect...and then get back. It is pertinent to mention here that BREAK UP is not as bad as it is portrayed. Ruin is a gift. It leads to the road to transformation (Gilbert). Sometimes, these transformations are necessary and more liberating than sinking in the dangerous quagmire of a bad relationship and eventually getting gagged. I do not intend to be preachy but I am compelled to write this given to what I see of this generation. Guys and girls, with more than perfect lives are perennially depressed and permanently destroyed by relationships. Please do not let this happen to you. You are at the prime of your youth...LOVE to ameliorate your life and not destroy it...TAKE CARE! COS YOU ARE WORTH IT! :P
Posted on: Sun, 14 Sep 2014 17:19:23 +0000

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