I have been thinking about why liking people that I used to is more difficult for me these days. I realized I am doing something wrong, obviously, if at least 5-8 people I used to love drive me crazy anymore. Then, it hit me. It is me. But, I dont think its a negative, necessarily. See, I have really high expectations for people. I dont know if that is because my mom had/has such high expectations of me or its just my personality. Either way, I expect my friends and family to hold certain attributes. When I find out they dont, I almost check them off for good. Ive come to terms with the fact that I may only have about 10-15 really close friends compared to the 20+ I used to think I had. But, its quality of those people over quantity of those people. I have surrounded myself with people that I truly love and value in my life. Yes, its a sacrifice to lose certain people, but its also rewarding to see that I value friendship/family and what expectations I have.
Posted on: Sun, 09 Mar 2014 16:04:16 +0000
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