I spent money on her, I paid her rent, school fees and yet she left me... I taught him how to be a man, he was a nobody before me, now he married another girl after making it big... Dont think because you spent your life savings on a girl/ boyfriend they owe you marriage.....or else you are going to get the biggest heartache of your life.... There is nothing wrong in helping your lover,but do it because you loved them.....dont do it because you feel it will score you a wedding.... Marriage is a serious commitment, dont enterinto it as a way of paying someone back for a good deed rendered you if you dont love that person....you will regret it, you will grow to resent the person. Dont marry someone out of pity....it will not work, you will grow to hate the person, you will lose out on your true love because you have tied yourself down in a loveless marriage,,,,,ev en the person you married out of pity will not be happy, because deep downthey know it was not love but pity that tied you to them.....and no matter how long you hide it.....the pity will show out one day....one day out of frustration...i t will come out that after all I only married you out of pity... If you owe someone, there are ways to pay them back besides marriage... If you feel that the only way a person can pay you back for all you did for them is to marry you....hmmm, dont you think that you deserve real love and not pity payback love? Why are you setting yourself up for an eventual devastating heartbreak..... Think on it...
Posted on: Tue, 28 Jan 2014 03:36:40 +0000