I used to believe that when I was committed to someone, that person belonged to me. Of course, now I understand that people are not possessions. This means you don’t have a claim on the lifestyle choices they make, no matter how long you’ve been together. You don’t get to control their behavior, even if it’s obviously not ideal for the relationship. The best you can do is to communicate and create boundaries from a space of trust, honoring the other and self-love!
Posted on: Sat, 23 Aug 2014 00:47:56 +0000