I want to make something clear. (Esp. for those who think that they have the right to tell me what to do with my life) I have never been like people who love to talk about every single detail of their personal problems. I think twice when I talk to people to not offend them. I always try to be kind and understanding. Maybe just because of that I encourage people to treat me rudely and selfishly. Please do not forget that I am a human too. Just because I dont whine about my life, doesnt mean that I am fine. Trust me I have tons of problems. I am depressed and I have other health problems too. So this time I am not going to pretend as if it is OK. - You dont have the right to tell me that I should lose weight. That is just so rude. I am aware of it. I dont like the way I look too and you make me feel lot worse when you say that. - I just want to slap your face when you say something racist or homophobic - Stop telling me that I should have a kid soon. I cant have one at the moment. I’m not even sure if I want to have one in the future. To be honest I’m not in love with kids either. Oh also you freak me out when you talk about how difficult it is to raise a kid. I am really not into listening your breast feeding stories or looking at 5000 pictures of your kids - I am not looking for a job at the moment. I dont want to work in the near future. I dont have enough strength or will to work. I didnt ask you to help me to find a job. Also I can afford not having a job. I am not spending my husband’s money. He just pays for the rent and grocery shopping. (Time to time hospital expenses as well). So I am not like those women who try to spend their partners’ money as much as they can. I have my own and I spend what I have. I don’t ask him to spend money on me. - I love my husband; I didnt marry him to move to Sweden or to get an EU passport. I love Sweden but I miss Turkey lot. My life in Turkey was lot easier. I had lot higher living standards etc. Trying to get used to live in here is not easy at all. The only reason I live in Sweden is Johan. I know that he wouldnt get used to live in Turkey. If he could, I would prefer to live in Turkey where I can afford to buy a house and have a good career.
Posted on: Fri, 10 Oct 2014 18:56:59 +0000
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