I want to tell a little story. This is particularly for the friends I have on here from McMinnville, but a lot of you know most of this story. I am going to shorten and if you want details about something, please feel free to ask. Eight years ago I thought I met the love of my life. I was just divorcing and was vulnerable and loved the attention and feelings of love he brought to my life. Its been eight years now of dealing with a con man, sociopath, addict, narcissist. There are way too many stories to tell, but after Christmas last year he went to jail for domestic abuse to me and vandalism to my property. I had already bailed him out of jail the previous year, once cost me $400, the other $500. Of course I never saw the money he promised to pay back, same story as all the other loans of over $50k. But I wanted to believe there was something good in him. I thought 3 months in jail could be his rehab and while i supported him through jail, money in commissary and phone accounts, also visited him twice a week, I thought I was seeing a change. Some remorse and admitting responsibility of wrong doing. He came back and I paid his way, groc, classes, drove him everywhere as he had no vehicle until he got a job after the first month. Then I made sure I got him to work everyday, even getting up at 4 am some mornings to drive him, as I also had a job and needed my car. He started to make some money and helped pay bills. But it was like pulling teeth. He was still needy for pills and other things and I tried to be understanding. Finally, after getting fired from two really good jobs, he decided to work on his own again, renovations, and got a very great paycheck right off the bat. Asked me to help him with his business, but then wouldnt listen to any suggestions I had. Long story short, In the first week of his FREEDOM, he bought a truck with the money, and spent hours on the phone tracking down pain pills, which he swore he was over, and started calling women that I saw from the phone records bc he erased them from his phone. Well my trust and belief was broken all over again and I asked him to please leave. He did. And moved five condos down from me with two older women I introduced him to and got him the job he was working. Within a week he started a sterlationship with the hairdresser woman and when he saw that I started walking and jogging and working on myself HE filed for and Order of Protection against ME. Tomorrow it expires. Yesterday he was taking pics of me walking my dog in OUR neighborhood on OUR street even though I was avoiding his residence. Such an ugly person to take everything I have, leave me with nothing, and still try to control me. Well He will be back in McMinnville soon to answer to some drug related charges, spend a weekend in jail, then do an 18 month drug course. Be careful of this user, loser, abuser and heartless con man. He will say what you want to hear, and take all you will give and then some. As I said, Ive done EIGHT years of this. And when I had nothing left to give, he left. All the good I did for him, all the times I saved him from himself, all the love I gave it was all in vain. Please consider all that Ive said when you run into him. I know you will all hear his version, thats why Im putting the truth on here now. And I want to you all to know that he didnt win. Roxie is ALWAYS going to be FINE. Because my heart was pure, my love was true, my concerns were valid and I wanted to see the good in him. There isnt any. So, by Sept. 12 he will be back in your midst. I just want you all to be aware of this souless, heartless, shell of a person who will be sniffing out another vulnerable female very soon. You do what you want. I wish someone had warned me long ago. Sterling Bennett Gipson will be among you soon. Good Luck McMinnville!! Peace from the one who is lucky to have survived him.
Posted on: Sat, 30 Aug 2014 06:56:25 +0000
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