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“If you don’t join together, why bother with a long-term rela­tion­ship? If you are going to cre­ate escape tun­nels, you are not really plan­ning to stay in the rela­tion­ship. Don’t bother enter­ing into it in the first place. You will save both you and you part­ner a lot of pain. Together is bet­ter in our opinion.” What about when a per­son is in a rela­tion­ship, is fully com­mit­ted to the rela­tion­ship, and their part­ner drifts from the com­mit­ment? Or even when the bond between the two peo­ple fades and both feel a loss of the com­mit­ment? When the rela­tion­ship is over there is no rea­son to live with the pain just because a com­mit­ment was made. The only rea­son to main­tain the rela­tion­ship is for the sake of the rela­tion­ship. If it is bro­ken, truly bro­ken, it should be allowed to die. And it can be like death, but there is noth­ing to be gained to waste life liv­ing as if dead. When a rela­tion­ship should not last, it needs to die. It needs to die so that a new one can be born to have a chance to become one that can and should last. - Is Still Here & Still Here Too -
Posted on: Fri, 29 Nov 2013 14:17:05 +0000

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