If youre running away from people who make you happy and fighting to stay with those who make you miserable, cry, or who have you constantly questioning your value... heres a harsh reality check: You are *choosing* to invest your heart with the wrong people. Yes... CHOOSING. If you recognize that they are treating you without value and respect, heres the real deal: With awareness comes responsibility... as you are no longer in the dark, you are now a participant in your own unhappiness. You need to do the uncomfortable thing and stop the pattern. The reasons you are going back to the wrong person (and rejecting the nice ones) fall in the realm of: 1) It feels familiar... so its safe and predictable; and 2) For reasons only you know, you believe you are worth much less than you actually are.... so you allow others to treat you that way. 3) You are afraid to move away from what you have experienced and embrace change/the unknown. Stop the pattern. Break the cycle. When YOU know your worth, you wont invest one speck of effort with the wrong people; youll see them coming from a mile away.
Posted on: Sun, 06 Apr 2014 21:30:00 +0000
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