Im a woman so understand that my perceptions are not my man’s perceptions, and moreover, that when I think he seems emcumbered or stressed and upset; he may not actually be looking for relief from this state hes in. A lot of us women dont know how to be comforting and its not our fault, most of us are raised by single parents; who were raised by single parents, who were taught to be strong and do-it-alls and it snowballed down the generations. In all actuality, Men should be the strong ones (not saying women should be weak), but a man should take the lead, as a woman we should be feminine, graceful and comforting. now that we are grown it is our place to learn to be solely women, and let our men be men. You cant expect him to be a King if youre competing with his masculinity. I know, some of you wont like me for this, status, and thats okay, but we wonder why we have so many failed relationships. I learned this recently and I felt I should share it with all of you. Do with it as you will.
Posted on: Tue, 04 Nov 2014 19:39:08 +0000