Inbox- **HELPFUL COMMENTS ONLY** im after some advice could you post this please.. ill try and keep this short and sweet, when my son was 10 months old we had a ss visit because someone had reported me for not having money to feed him the report mentioned facebook status my status were jobcentre rants, they had sanctioned me over christmas, during that time sometimes i went without but never once did my son go without anyway, they turned up and my house was a mess, the social worker said my son had to stay at my bfs mums the night so we could tidy we tidied he came home, but ever since she has nit picked for every little thing, if i have 1 saucepan to soak in the sink she writes that up saying i need to get it done, im slipping, this isnt good enough, she has lied in her reports too, saying my cats are all over my kitchen sides, yet i dont EVER allow my cats in the kitchen, i find that disgusting, and yet she suggested putting my litter tray in the kitchen?! our spare room was as storage room, she moaned and said it had to be a bedroom, we changed it now shes telling us to put storage in there... i have an frs worker and she is lovely, and cant understand why any of this is happening, she said my house isnt dirty but my living room is cluttered (with toys) the social worker says his toys have to go away upstairs... theres too many... she is saying because my boyfriend has a sleeping issue that he is a hazard and bad environment for our son, and she is looking to remove our son, my frs worker doesnt agree with her, i am now on anti depressants, i find myself being angry at small things now and i have exma flared up all over ym body, but i love me son so much and i hae jumped through every hoop she has gave me, done everything she has said but then she finds something new to moan about, i do my best, my son is happy and healthy, the frs worker has a chart for neglect.. you can scre 5 10 15 20 25 5 is no concern and 20 is child protection... im scoring 5 on everythign so why is the social worker doing all of this, her manger said im not even allowed to complain :/ sorry its long and i hoe it makes sense ive missed about half or more out i dont really know what im expecting you to say i just need someone to tell me im not going crazy i suppose, i fel like im losing everything because of one vindictive woman could you also add ive gone to extremes of getting rid fof furniture to make room, ive replaced flooring and painted and moved remaining furniture there is seriously no issue now, i admit my house was untidy to begin with but theres no issue now she will even pick on things like a cup on the table even if im using it *Hannah*
Posted on: Thu, 31 Jul 2014 11:20:25 +0000