It greatly saddens me when my daughter askes me why her granny doesnt want to see her.I just have to tell her I often wonder that myself and its okay that her Mae mae and Papa and Mama and Daddy love her very much. my mother in law is completely absent from my childrens lives until SHE feels like SHE wants to come say hi or pop in every once in a great while and usually shows up just to complain about something being done to her by someone else that ultimately turns out not to even be true to begin with. I usually dont take all these things to Facebook but I just need to put this out there because it is very much disturbs me. My husband and I have been dealing with her crap his whole life and then since Ive known her for the past 15 years were used to it. My children are kids they dont understand and I dont understand myself why a grown woman a grand mother of my children what promised them things and then not follow through with them. They are little bitty there three and four years old when you tell them something they believe you and expect you to do it. When you dont they think theyve done something wrong for this I do not understand nor care to deal with it anymore. no Christmas wishes no birthday gifts no phone calls until its convenient for her which usually he doesnt follow through with whatever she says shes going to do when she calls anyways Im just confused I dont know what to do at this point or what to tell my children but Ive come to a point where maybe we should just write her off completely because its not right to them and I dont like it. They have a lot of aunts and uncles so they dont get to see very much either and I wish they would be more involved in my childrens lives.I know we all get busy sometimes but my both of my sisters have moved out of town they constantly call that constantly send things for my children and let them know they are loved even though they dont get to see them .due to my sisters being absent and my parents being retired and traveling a lot, they are not around a lot of the timethe girls are around just Jesse and I most of the time, which is good but I just wish that my in laws could also be a little bit more involved because most of them are good people and I would like for them to be a part of our family too and to be an important part of my childrens support system throughout their lives . sorry to vent Im just a little bit upset that my childs birthday was yesterday and no one remembered except for my sisters and my family or even care to contact or acknowledge her .shes 3 years old everyone she deserves to feel loved and important on her birthday. Thank you to all who did acknowledge and show love to her it is acknowledged and greatly appreciated ! Happy 3rd bday,yesterday BAI-GRAY! you are a hoot !
Posted on: Sat, 10 Jan 2015 19:23:34 +0000
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