Its always best to accept what you must and to accept what you can, but not everything going on in your life is going to be acceptable. In other words, you may not be capable of just accepting everything thats going on around you, and in some cases, it may not even be at all appropriate for you to just accept some things going on around you. So, accept what you can accept. Change what you can change. And accept what you must, for the time being, and take full advantage to change them just as soon as you can. There will be things that you simply cant accept and allow to continue (things are are unacceptable, wrong, dangerous, unhealthy) and things that you cant change immediately (things that are completely out of your control, like other peoples actions and decisions that affect you). With unacceptable things, be patient and wait for the means and the opportunity to make a change so unacceptable things wont affect you any longer. Be looking for the means and opportunity. Things that are really terribly wrong and in desperate need of change just cannot remain wrong forever, and they tend to attract attention, sooner or later, because theyre actually begging for attention. Unacceptable things like this tend to stick out like sore thumbs needing, calling for, and attracting attention. In the meantime, stay as calm as you can, and have some confidence that a way to change them will be made for you if you cant make the way for yourself. Theres no use in being distraught over situations that are wrong, that you cant do anything about and that need to change. Being distraught, thinking youre helpless, and feeling like a victim to whats going on around you will paralyze you, making you unable to see and grasp opportunities to change the unacceptable to the acceptable, or changing them to the preferable.
Posted on: Sat, 02 Nov 2013 04:19:32 +0000
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