Its typical Control behavior to reject another person because they: dont agree dont go along with bullying, gossip, or ostracism toward another dont comply with demands and commands dont comply with frequent revisions in plans and scheduling hold to their own plans, schedules, and goals, and also to that of their children, or partner, or other relatives, or other friends dont allow the Controller to treat them disrespectfully turn out to be less popular or wealthy as previously thought are not as easily manipulated as previously thought turn out to be more knowledgeable, more experienced, more skilled, more talented, more intelligent, more capable, more confident or even physically stronger than previously assumed stand up for themselves or someone else against insults, manipulation, bullying, sabotage, or slander run out of whatever supply a con-artist was getting from them ~What they reject others for depends on what type of Controller, how severe their Control issues are, and what their motives are. Many Controllers will use rejection as a weapon or punishment, with the belief that theyre going to teach the target a lesson, and that the target is going to be MORE compliant or MORE submissive as a result of the rejection behavior. They may expect a reaction of FEAR from the target, as if the target is a child who fears being abandoned and will do anything to avoid being rejected again in the future. Many Controllers may expect a target to RUN AWAY from the entire community, group, activity or business as a result of the Controllers rejection of them. One can see the obvious traces of childhood bullying in a lot of these behaviors and expectations. Rejection as a weapon apparently worked on other children as a Control tactic, or it worked on the Controller themselves (or both).
Posted on: Thu, 13 Mar 2014 17:55:41 +0000
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