June 2012. When returned back to my Sasural after the deliver of my son. Maa why have you become so thin and lost weight ? Nothing dear. I am just dieting so that i can match up with you. HAHA. Sounded funny. Right ? But it didnt remain a joke when the weight kept on reducing. July 2012. What did the doctor say Maa ? Test karwaye hain beta. Reports aane ki der hai bas. Happiness knew no bounds when all the tests throughout her body was normal. Now came the part where i had to force feed my Mom in law like a mother forcefeeds her children. November 2012. She complained of not being able to swallow food and blamed her bad grinders for the same. Took her to the dentist who suggested tooth implants. December 2012. Now i had to grind the food into paste and feed her. Somehow i was not convinced that the reason of her not being able to swallow were the teeth. January 2013. Happy birthday Maa and Shaurya. May you both live till the end of time. Party was grand and memorable. You looked beautiful in the white and orange mysore silk saree. February 2013. Swallowing became worse. After what the endoscopy results told me, my world crashed into pieces in front of my eyes. Yes it was the Oncologist who told us that she is almost in the third stage of Oesophagus Cancer. Nope. No way am i ready to accept this. But God had the same in store for me. Chemotherapy 1st cycle. crossed without a glitch. Yes indeed she lost all her hair. But the enthusiasm on Maas face to live, got us going. March 2013. Chemotherapy second cycle. She stopped eating and was not able to swallow inspite of the stent in her throat. 50ml oats porridge. That was what she would eat each day. April 2013. Time for her third cycle. Doctor refused to give her the third cycle as she was physically very weak to resist. We tried to feed her food at home and get her fit. But looks like something was keeping her from willing to live. 21st May 2013. As usual I made the oats porridge and fed her. She wished to go to the toilet. I helped her till there. Sitting on the comode, she passed out. We rished her to the hospital in the ambulance where she was put in the ICU. 23rd May 2013. 4.30 am She is not responding and is put on life support system. We would need to switch off the life support. If you can come to the hospital immediately. These were the words from the doctor from the hospital. We rushed till there. I tried to tlk to Maa. But all she did was just stare blindly with no life left in them. 23rd May 10.30 am. We will miss you Maa. My best and only friend in Bangalore. Nobody would understand how much i miss you still just coz i am a daughter in law. But only you understand i am sure. Miss you so so much. Specially on auspicious and special days like today when i needed you. Todays Ganesh Chaturthi and Gowri Puja Naivedhya obedient ingredient - ALMONDS Almond and rice kheer Steamed rice gujiya stuffed with almond and til. Kosambri with almonds Husli (chana and moong stir fry with coconut) with crunchy almonds Suji ka Sheera loaded with almonds #Healthyindianmeal
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