Keys to a better marriage: Your key today is to stop dwelling on the negative programming. Even though God did a wonderful job on His creation, once sin entered into our DNA programming, we all became flawed. That means no matter how great of a partner you have married they have shortcomings and so do you. Life really is about dealing with our problems and learning how to love and be loved in spite of them. Now you have two choices in life, you can sit back and look at all the bugs in your spouse’s programming and complain every time it goes a little haywire or you can start praising God every time the program works right. By praying for them, encouraging them, inspiring them and helping them seek and know God better is like running anti-viral software on their computer. Every time you nag, criticize, put down, get angry with and downgrade their self-worth is like loading more viruses on their operating system. Just like a real computer the more junk you got in the system the less responsive it will become and the less ability it will have to complete its primary task. Tell me what kind of system do you want in your home? You really are in many ways an active programmer into your spouse’s operating system. You can help load good programs into your mate or bad one the choice is yours. Reginald Brister
Posted on: Wed, 29 Oct 2014 06:00:31 +0000
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