LADIES, MEN HAVE FEELINGS TOO.Dear Ladies,No one ever wants to be a victim of a player. It isn’t funto fallhard for a guy and then find out that he is dating 14other ladies.Giving them all the same gifts, lines, and attention thathe wasgiving you. Now, if you’ve never been in this situationbefore, Iwould gather you think it would suck but do not fullyunderstandhow much it hurts.I have come across a number of lady players. Now,at first I was all like “Yeah! Girl power!” and shit butit’s wrong. Iwill never cosign on intentionally not caring aboutsomeone’semotions when you’re aware of how much they actuallycare about you.So this is where I am directly addressing my lovelyladies. Here is a list of the nonsense I have beennoticing that needs to stop.If you have zero intentions on actually being close withsomeonethat you know is REALLY into you, don’t touch him.Don’t kisshim, don’t fondle him, don’t rub his butt, don’t touchhim! If youhave a good idea that someone is falling hard for youbut you aren’ton the same emotional level, don’t get intimate withthat person.Stop expecting him to wine and dine you. This is aHUGE one.I’ve known girls to only date guys for gifts and food.Seriously,think about it. What if it were the other way around?It’s one thingif you’re actually interested in the guy, and he wants totake youout and do something nice for you. It’s totally differentwhen youhave no intentions on being with this person but hekeeps buyinggifts, food, and ponies. You accept these gifts with nointention onbeing with this person. Not cool, bro-dettes.Sometimes, you aren’t sure how you feel about a guy inthebeginning. This is completely fine…if you express tothat to theguy. Don’t allow the first two things i’ve mentioned totake place,until you are sure about your feelings towards thisperson.The reason why I am addressing this matter to beginwith is, I amfriends with lots of great guys. I hear their sides of thestory waytoo often. If these negative actions happen it will thenturn thesegreat guys into the guys that we’ve all grown to dislike.Theplayers, the ‘assholes’, the disconnected, whatever thecase may be.If women, don’t like shit treatment we need to also doourpart.I’m not saying, don’t go on dates and have fun. I’msayingcommunicate and don’t take advantage of someone.Believe in karmaor not, it has happened over and over again. You willget burnt inthe end if you keep playing with fire. It’s the ugly truthbut thetruth we all need to know in order to love one another.There areway too many major issues in the world for people totreat eachother like assholes in their intimate relationships.Now let’s all play nicely together because I adore you all. Have A wonderful good morning, Think About This Ladies
Posted on: Wed, 23 Oct 2013 05:17:00 +0000
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